When Lean on Me first came out, I have to admit, I did not make a connection between the title and the film. I just saw crazy Joe with his baseball bat and his chains on the doors. I thought he had a funny way of showing his love and appreciation - firing folks and cursing out kids. Now, able to think a little clearer and more critically, I can see how his love was meant to lift some up - to sift the undesirable attitudes out and to focus only on the positive. In this letter, I would like to point out that the undesired attitudes are the ones we need to focus on the most. It brings me to the point that it is now more important than ever for all of us to lean upon each other for support.
Times are hard. And quite honestly, we need each other. Too often, on the TV, in the news, there are images of us tearing each other down. We make judgements on each other's mistakes. We talk all about us and never actually listen. The truth is, people need to be encouraged, inspired, and listened to. I honestly believe that the energy that is put into tearing people down can be used better if were used solely to uplift. Just think about the maginitude of effect that someone who has showered you with encouragement has had upon you. This show of love doesn't have to be over the top. It can be, "Hey, you look great!" or " What have you been up to?" or "I just wanted to stop by and say hi." or it can be a simple smile.
It doesn't cost anything to be nice. It is free. (We are in a recession.) Even when you know people hate your guts, be nice. Speak. Say hello. Smile. Choose the route of encouragement. You never know the emotional bagage that people are lugging around with them. You just might help to lighten the load.
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